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Caleb · Post by **Caleb** » Mon Nov 05, 2007 4:12 pm

woke up to find i got a text while i was asleep...

apparently she just needed some space and already misses me a ton after a day *shrug* so i guess its just the whole absence makes the heart grow stronger.

Goretheglowingone · Post by **Goretheglowingone** » Mon Nov 05, 2007 4:55 pm

yup, and all those guys she banged during that absence will make your relationship the better for it, you should be grateful,.... so... ho much tang did YOU score during the brief separation?

St. Toxic · Post by **St. Toxic** » Mon Nov 05, 2007 7:08 pm

Caleb wrote:woke up to find i got a text while i was asleep...

apparently she just needed some space and already misses me a ton after a day *shrug* so i guess its just the whole absence makes the heart grow stronger.

Just keep your eyes open mango. Next time it happens, I suggest you smack her around.

Caleb · Post by **Caleb** » Tue Nov 06, 2007 4:23 am

uh...doubt she got any during that gore...it was like 2 days... and hey...WE ACTUALLY ARE DEVOTED TO EACH OTHER, HOW GOD DAMN RARE!

and yeah...i know toxic...after everything is 'good' again i'ma approach that one

edit: guess i forgot to make it clear that for us, taking a break means just chilling out and not really talking/interacting...doing anything w/ anyone else to us is still very much cheating..

Subhuman · Post by **Subhuman** » Tue Nov 06, 2007 5:41 am

Caleb wrote:guess i forgot to make it clear that for us, taking a break means just chilling out and not really talking/interacting...doing anything w/ anyone else to us is still very much cheating..

I'm still trying to wrap my head around the no-interaction thing. How is this normal for a couple? Even if she wants to clear her head and sort some stuff out, she needs to be completely isolated from other humans to do it?

johnnygothisgun · Post by **johnnygothisgun** » Tue Nov 06, 2007 6:22 am

incidentally my girl and i also just agreed yesterday after a long discussion to spend a little time apart so we (she) can figure out what we (she) really want(s)

she just texted me mentioning shed seen something on television that we always joke about, and then finished by saying, "something always reminds me of you, it seems"

hur hur hur make up your mind urggh

Caleb · Post by **Caleb** » Tue Nov 06, 2007 7:15 am

Subhuman wrote:
Caleb wrote:guess i forgot to make it clear that for us, taking a break means just chilling out and not really talking/interacting...doing anything w/ anyone else to us is still very much cheating..
I'm still trying to wrap my head around the no-interaction thing. How is this normal for a couple? Even if she wants to clear her head and sort some stuff out, she needs to be completely isolated from other humans to do it?

believe it or not she just called me. i guess she just needs more space and just not AS MUCH interaction, at least for a while? she's crazy as all hell and i love her, so i'll deal...and i'm sure its just one of those things right now w/ way way too much going on.

VasikkA · Post by **VasikkA** » Tue Nov 06, 2007 10:56 am

johnnygothisgun wrote:incidentally my girl and i also just agreed yesterday after a long discussion to spend a little time apart so we (she) can figure out what we (she) really want(s)

she just texted me mentioning shed seen something on television that we always joke about, and then finished by saying, "something always reminds me of you, it seems"

hur hur hur make up your mind urggh

Sounds like you're the underdog here; you need to gain momentum. Sleep with her best friend and you (she) will figure out sooner. If, for some reason, she manifests dissatisfaction, just say "it seems, she reminded me of you".

Forget that. My point is, don't be the underdog. State what you want and go with it.

cazsim83 · Post by **cazsim83** » Tue Nov 06, 2007 3:46 pm

Chasing Amy was a great movie, wasn't it?

This is just like that....except Caleb's not Ben Affleck.....and his girlfriend isn't gay......and there's no menage tois involved.....nevermind actually. But it was a great movie, wasn't it?

Caleb · Post by **Caleb** » Tue Nov 06, 2007 4:16 pm

i found it the worst out of the jay and bob movies....had some great moments and great ideas but execution was kind of lacking...

Thor Kaufman · Post by **Thor Kaufman** » Tue Nov 06, 2007 4:28 pm

ya, Chasing Amy is rather weak and Affleck and Damon really are annoying in all of the films, they should be gassed

Urizen · Post by **Urizen** » Tue Nov 06, 2007 6:34 pm

i'm breaking up with the bf tomorrow, just two weeks after our two year anniversary. it's no biggie, my heart wasn't really in it. my parents will probably be heartbroken, though.

VasikkA · Post by **VasikkA** » Tue Nov 06, 2007 7:52 pm

Urizen wrote:i'm breaking up with the bf tomorrow, just two weeks after our two year anniversary. it's no biggie, my heart wasn't really in it. my parents will probably be heartbroken, though.

This is the happiest day of my life!

Urizen · Post by **Urizen** » Tue Nov 06, 2007 7:56 pm

pardon? i don't get it.

cazsim83 · Post by **cazsim83** » Tue Nov 06, 2007 8:20 pm

Thor Kaufman wrote:ya, Chasing Amy is rather weak and Affleck and Damon really are annoying in all of the films, they should be gassed

Really? I found Gigli to be a very deep and moving film, and Good Will Hunting was a masterful effort on Damon's part, donchathinkhuhdoncha?

No not really. Anybody waste their time on the Machinist? I hated the film, but I thought the acting was excellent - and I just saw ... forget his name at the moment ... and the film. Shoot. The guy that plays in Batman Begins and the Machinist - he acted as a child too in a movie about China where his parents had to flee (they were British) and he got left behind, hooked up with a couple of thieves, etc etc - whatever that movie was, it was pretty good. Empire of the Sun, or something like that.

edit - Christian Bale (or whatever)

VasikkA · Post by **VasikkA** » Tue Nov 06, 2007 8:36 pm

Urizen wrote:pardon? i don't get it.

Our forbidden love... it's not forbidden anymore!

Thor Kaufman · Post by **Thor Kaufman** » Tue Nov 06, 2007 8:37 pm

congrats, when are you going to marry?

sarge112 · Post by **sarge112** » Tue Nov 06, 2007 9:06 pm

Urizen · Post by **Urizen** » Tue Nov 06, 2007 9:19 pm

VasikkA wrote:
Urizen wrote:pardon? i don't get it.
Our forbidden love... it's not forbidden anymore!

oh my. i thought maybe you wanted to keep it a secret for a little bit longer, but you're right, we have nothing to hide! ravish me! right here on dack!

fallout ranger · Post by **fallout ranger** » Tue Nov 06, 2007 9:23 pm

cazsim83 wrote:I found Gigli to be a very deep and moving film

Fuck...that's ban-worthy.