Online Dating Sites (Another doomed Thread or Home to spam?)

AltraWave7 · Post by **AltraWave7** » Tue Aug 27, 2002 11:26 am

Well...i want your opinions on Online Dating, sites, etc...So let the spam, flaming, etc, begin...

Oh, how many of you use these sites? Be honest!

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So, it has come to this?
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the guardian · Post by **the guardian** » Tue Aug 27, 2002 9:57 pm

i suggest you better fap instead, if you cant do it in real life.

Kashluk · Post by **Kashluk** » Wed Aug 28, 2002 1:16 am

I've tried a few, mostly Spark.com's and such, but not for *date* search... More like looking for a net-chatting pal, you know.

And yes, THAT'S why I sometimes type Men looking for Men, trust me!

Rat Keeng · Post by **Rat Keeng** » Wed Aug 28, 2002 2:38 am

I once went to a dating site some time ago to find out how many people i knew were signed up for it. That was hilarious. But what the hell, if they bring people together, hurrah for that.

AltraWave7 · Post by **AltraWave7** » Wed Aug 28, 2002 4:57 am

the guardian wrote:i suggest you better fap instead, if you cant do it in real life.

not for me...just wanted to know what you all thought...

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the guardian · Post by **the guardian** » Wed Aug 28, 2002 5:08 am

well its alright, i suppose, if you're looking for some conversation, but not, if you're looking for a girlfriend... see, either then the distance thing, there's also the problem of not acully talking with this person in real life... on the net, you're usualy an entirely diffrent person, because you're not around people... so its easier for you to make jokes, to talk, etc.

plus, you never get to see the person who you're talking to, and while this is a great opportonity to know him for his mind, personal appearance is also very important... sure, she/he are witty and kind, but, can you honestly say that you wouldnt care how they look like? that it wont bother you if he/she are fat slobs, or that they got a facial distortion, or something like that? get the fuck outta here if you just started typing "no", because everyone get effected by the outer appearance of another indevidual, the diffrence is, how much it effects them... but it always does.

i also think that if you went to internet dating in search for a female/male company(and not just to talk with like minded people), then you're doing it because a)you cant get it in real life, because you're so freaking socialy indept or c)you dont like the society which you're in,meaning, the women, the men, and the general population... well, tough luck sugarcheeks, most of us dont, but we manage just fine, i dont think it requires starting to search on the net, it just means you havent been searching enough in real life... there's got to be atlist one guy/girl you can like,so sod off with your "everyone are stupid" or "everyone hate me"...

did i sum my opinion on interenet dating sites well enough?

AltraWave7 · Post by **AltraWave7** » Wed Aug 28, 2002 11:37 am

This is what I wanted to see people! This is the type of reaction i wanted to spark...emotion, intelligence and yes even a bit of insperation...

Go forward wery one and continue to stand up for what you belive!

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the guardian · Post by **the guardian** » Wed Aug 28, 2002 9:49 pm

in that case, i suggest you get the fuck out of the board, and go make a show about whale's cum in broadway.....

now im slightly tempted to delete everything i just wrote, you ruined it.

ITS ALL YOUR FAULT.

DrWacco · Post by **DrWacco** » Wed Aug 28, 2002 10:12 pm

OMFG and I thought I was sad!

Oh shit I am

AltraWave7 · Post by **AltraWave7** » Thu Aug 29, 2002 12:26 am

the guardian wrote:in that case, i suggest you get the fuck out of the board, and go make a show about whale's cum in broadway.....

now im slightly tempted to delete everything i just wrote, you ruined it.

ITS ALL YOUR FAULT.

Ah...well...ah...hum...eh...I...so, I ruined things you say...how?

So anyway this was a fun experiment...

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Kashluk · Post by **Kashluk** » Thu Aug 29, 2002 10:44 am

the guardian wrote:because everyone get effected by the outer appearance of another indevidual, the diffrence is, how much it effects them... but it always does.

What about if some guy likes fat chicks or facial disor--- or whatever?

Try to accept it, guardian, all the people ain't like you: for some of us the physical side doesn't matter so much.

the guardian · Post by **the guardian** » Sat Aug 31, 2002 9:37 pm

oh, shut the fuck up, will you kash? do you even KNOW what i like? i like short red haired chicks, with tight asses... and while ass is a general liking, how many people look for red haired girls with short hair? not a bunch, i can tell you that....

as for others not giving a shit about physical appearance, like i said, some care for it a lot, some care for it a little, but EVERYONE care for it, and saying you only care about how sensetive or pretty or whatever a guy/girl is on the inside, is just plain bullshitting, REALY, it is.

Jeff · Post by **Jeff** » Sat Aug 31, 2002 9:40 pm

as for others not giving a shit about physical appearance, like i said, some care for it a lot, some care for it a little, but EVERYONE care for it

You forgot blind people.

the guardian · Post by **the guardian** » Sat Aug 31, 2002 9:59 pm

a winner is you.

Quagamire · Post by **Quagamire** » Sat Aug 31, 2002 10:01 pm

the guardian wrote: as for others not giving a shit about physical appearance, like i said, some care for it a lot, some care for it a little, but EVERYONE care for it, and saying you only care about how sensetive or pretty or whatever a guy/girl is on the inside, is just plain bullshitting, REALY, it is.

Could say
as for others not giving a shit about personality, like i said, some care for it a lot, some care for it a little, but EVERYONE care for it, and saying you only care about how pretty someone is, is just plain bullshitting, REALY, it is.

Its the same diffrence and ofcourse theres always extremes like the obese elephant man or the retarded fanatic where evryone will mind, some just dont care about physical/psych enough for it "to matter" in +95%

EDIT: J00 kn0w what Blame cut n paste.

Jeff · Post by **Jeff** » Sat Aug 31, 2002 10:03 pm

and saying you only care about how sensetive or pretty

Whoopsie.

the guardian · Post by **the guardian** » Sat Aug 31, 2002 10:40 pm

a winner is also you.

AltraWave7 · Post by **AltraWave7** » Wed Sep 04, 2002 3:34 pm

Iteresting Turn this tread has taken...ok go on with it...

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Jimmyjay86 · Post by **Jimmyjay86** » Fri Sep 06, 2002 8:20 am

Heh, I tried the services for awhile and didn't meet anyone too worthwhile. But at least I had a few short term sexual relationships out of it!

Not bad but I finally figured that picking a girlfriend based on stats and similar interests really doesn't work that well. You find out that what you thought mattered doesn't really work for a relationship. And the pickings weren't really that impressive either. Oh well.

OnTheBounce · Post by **OnTheBounce** » Fri Sep 06, 2002 10:28 am

the guardian wrote:well its alright, i suppose, if you're looking for some conversation, but not, if you're looking for a girlfriend...

You know, I think that 99.9% of people who say that they are just looking to chat/for an email penpal are full of shit. I made the mistake when I first came online of looking for an email penpal. Every one of them turned out to be some rotund wench that would end up trying to turn things "romantic".

I won't even go into the heartburn that the screen name "OnTheBounce" caused me in Excite trivia chat. I was cyber-stalked by this laywer from NZ for a while. Damn did she creep me out!

There were a lot of women that seemed to think that my nick was something sexual, or that I was on the rebound from a relationship or something...sorry gals, ever heard of Rob Heinlein?

OTB

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